Comments on: Secrets We Keep

By: Why? : StopStressingNow.com

Why? : StopStressingNow.com — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 22:02:07 +0000

[...] I certainly could have. Right? Most people wouldn’t want anyone to know. Most people would go to any length to hide it, and live in fear of anyone ever discovering their secret. [...]

By: StopStressingNow

StopStressingNow — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 07:16:23 +0000

What Secrets Do You Keep? …

It started in January of this year with an article I wrote here called “The Secrets We Keep“.
Sort of……

By: Deep Secrets : StopStressingNow.com

Deep Secrets : StopStressingNow.com — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 07:02:30 +0000

[...] It started in January of this year with an article I wrote here called “The Secrets We Keep“. [...]

By: Chase Brumfield

Chase Brumfield — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 18:27:47 +0000

I think most secrets stem from an irrational perception of both ourselves and how those around us view who we really are.

In other words, I keep a secret because I feel like the secret I keep would make me a “worse” person if I let it into the open…

Those who I love would love me less or not accept me should I let them in on this secret…

But you’re exactly right Steven, secrets eat us from the inside out because they challenge the core of our relationships, both the one we hold with ourself and the ones we hold with others. They skew our perceptions of identity and cause the “pretending” we do to keep the secret a secret to infect other areas of our lives as well. Before we know it we begin to question who we actually are because we have tried to control who we are perceived as.

It’s a dirty game, and one that far to many people suffer in.

Give. Get. Give.
Chase Brumfield

By: Steven Diamond

Steven Diamond — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 00:46:08 +0000

Hi Dr.Wesch,
EFT, more commonly referred to as “Tapping” is something I have experimented with myself for a while now. But I don’t teach it as yet. I am still somewhat unconvinced to be honest. However, I have had discussions with real people who swear by the technique. I am still doing research and plan to do a blog post about it very soon. It’s interesting to me for sure, enough so that I do not dismiss the possibility of it’s effectiveness. I just have to be 100% convinced before I start telling those who trust me that it’s real and it can help them. I would love to hear any experiences with this that you have had personally. Maybe you would like to write a blog post for us about this unique technique. Check out our guest blogger program here: http://www.stopstressingnow.com/guest-bloggers/
Thank you for your post.
Steven

By: Jerry Wesch, PhD

Jerry Wesch, PhD — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 14:57:21 +0000

Pretending pits one part of the brain agaist others to guard the “Secret” – very expensive in terms of energy and stress. Excellent point!

Do you every use EFT or related meridian-base anxiety treatments?