PS – I’m working on a post of “Top 5 Reasons Women Cheat” just to be fair.

But really? The 10 signs/questions you need to ask yourself? Come on, thats nothing but planting a seed of mistrust!

Some answers that could be considered (that are JUST as plausible):

1) He’s been doing some business networking, or the box has even asked him to take clients out to lunch to assure the “next big contract”.
2) Maybe, hes realised hes become a bit of a slob and wants to improve for his partner
3) Some other guy commented/partner commented on how “dated” his wardrobe is, besides, women buy clothes ALL the time?!
4) Long hours for a contract, private meetings were “professionalism” & no distractions are needed.
5) See reason 4.
6) Maybe he needs a little male bonding or he spent the last 4 weekends “Shopping for clothes and stuff” and he wanted a weekend with the boys, dont women have girls only weekends too?
7) When men get stressed, a lot of the time, they are disinterested in physical contact; men retreat to their “cave” (shed) a lot of the time too
Hes arranging a special secret weekend or birthday party, or a family reunion and doesnt want to spoil the secrets?
9) See reason 7. Maybe hes having a little bit of a personal crisis at work, or needing a change, or feeling that hes not a good provider for his partner?
10) Maybe, just maybe, you ARE nagging him. Usually brought about by reason 7 or 9.

Women get all suspicious, sneak about snooping, find nothing and are Positively Reinforced by the relief that their man ISNT cheating, so they do it again, and again, +ve reinforcement every time; then they start seeing things that arent there, then BAM, no relationship.

There is ALWAYS more to a situation than its surface value.