The Relaxed Rush

The what? Yes, you read it right, the title is the “Relaxed Rush”!

Is that possible, to rush and relax at the same time? Yes, it’s not only possible, it’s necessary.

I know what you’re thinking, you’re a guy, how would you know? I may not know the specifics but let’s take a shot at it. As a woman, let’s say a mom, you’ve got kids to get ready for school, soccer practice, violin lessons and did they do their homework? What about work- 9 to 5 plus- emphasis on the plus.

There’s bills that have to be paid. Gotto also try to fit in a work out so you can fit in the dress you just bought. Hair and make-up take up time that guys don’t have to worry about too. And how am I supposed to eat right running at 100 miles per hour? Close? From my experience, I’ve learned, “The fastest way to a mistake is to hurry up and get there!” Then, oh, by the way, then you have to do whatever it was you were trying to do in the right and fast in the first place a second time, or more.

Little Blue Pills – No Thrills

When the Little Blue Pill for him doesn’t mean a Red Hot Thrill for her!

By Guest Blogger: Billy Sunday Mars
I know my book is called Fit for Love, however it is important to realize it was also written to provide people with an opportunity to get fit “from” love as well. That said, I say, “What you do not do to help yourself you do to hurt yourself!” For over a decade, men who may have thought there sex life was dead, have experienced a resurrection or should I say re-erection? Though I still feel there are psychological, emotional and physical issues that still need to be looked into- Viagra, Cialis and Levitra -have allowed men to –get “back in the saddle again”. Yet there is another issue lurking beneath the surface of this somewhat superficial cure for sexual issues. Often overlooked for women is the “still” stressful issue involving being intimate with their husband or boyfriend who, even with “the pill” can’t provide the thrill for her. This is unfortunately a highly overlooked problem. My playful expression of this is just because a man takes the pill and has a better erection doesn’t make him a better lover any more than giving him a better golf club makes him a better golfer. –I used to say makes him Tiger Woods but –well can’t use that one really anymore huh?

Healthy vs. Sexy

It’s now an age old story- average women trying to compete with the airbrushed “girl on the Magazine Cover” or TV star. Somehow the media has convinced, even the most intelligent, woman that thin is in and has always been. Now she tries to eat healthy often with kids that don’t like to, get them to and from school and nowadays hold down a job “and” try to find the time to work out. Seems the attempt be healthier somehow creates more of the stress she’s trying to relieve that takes years off her life and puts pounds on. Want some reprieve? As a trainer of exotic dancers and models, I’ve noticed very few men, unless they are dating the model, or excuse the expression; “not really into women”, show up at modeling shows- strip bars- another story, but- an important observation. The truth is, most of the time, men are not attracted to skinny jean wearing women or models.